Never take it as you find it. It can always be better.
(Compare to “The Tower” five posts below.)
You say esthetic. I say aesthetic. You say frenetic. I say kinetic. Esthetic. Aesthetic. Frenetic. Kinetic. Let’s call the whole thing off.
Lots of endeavors may enable you to better “find yourself”. However, why do we so often assume that what we might discover will be desirable?
The opposite of conventional isn’t unconventional. It’s contradiction.